Girls

A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them Sex, Some have even turned into Sex toys just to keep their man

Let me be very open here…….

Sex might not be the reason these guys walk away!

Remove sex from a relationship and see that most girls don’t have anything else to offer their man!

Aside Sex,what do you have to offer to a man?

Can you support him Spiritually?🙌🙌

Can you Support him Physically/Financially?💰💰💰😒😒

How about Mentally?📚📔📙

All you do is Demand Money 💵💰💰for Bags👜🎒👝, Shoes,phones👠👠👡, Clothes👗👙👘, and Outings🏫🏪🏩,

Making him spend unnecessarily😡😒😏😏

What are you even bringing to the table???

Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan 📝about his future???

Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life ✌💯💯.

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man!

Build your man to your Taste and stop looking for a ready made husband when you are not a ready made Wife…

Thank you 👌👌👌

10 COMMANDMENTS FOR SINGLE LADIES!!!

  1. Never fail to pray before saying
    yes to a man. Don’t be in a hurry to get married. If you rush in, you may rush out with alot of injuries!
  2. Discover Your Purpose before
    marriage. Go To School Or Learn A Trade. Don’t wait for a man before
    you start living. Add value to
    yourself. Have a
    life.
  3. Don’t run after a man because
    of his money,
    cars, connection, position, talent,
    or family
    background. Marry a
    man base on the conviction of the
    Holy Spirit
    and Love
  4. Develop a healthy eating habit.
    Don’t be too
    fat that single men begin to think
    you are
    married. It takes discipline to do
    that.
  5. Dress well: First Impression
    counts. Don’t
    expose any of your private part
    for men to see
    otherwise you might only attract a
    player not a
    responsible man
  6. Don’t beg or force a man to
    marry you. You
    are too precious to do that. And
    don’t try to
    hook and keep a guy
    with sex or unwanted pregnancy.
    Many ladies
    who do that end up in shame and
    regrets
  7. Your character is your
    marriage. It
    makes a man want to spend the
    rest of his life
    with you. So Work on your
    character. Beauty is
    not everything. If it is all you have,
    you’ll lose
    your place to someone more
    beautiful and
    more matured than you
  8. Never fail to learn how to cook
    good food.
    Men usually love a woman who
    feed them with good food because one of the easiest way to a man’s
    heart is through
    stomach (good food)
  9. Never fail to read at least 20
    books on marriage & family before your wedding. The marriage you don’t prepare for will confuse
    you when you get there.
  10. Attend marriage seminar and
    premarital counselling before marriage.
    AM I RIGHT??
    DROP UR COMMENTS.

MARRIAGE TIPS FOR THE SINGLES:

It is better to marry late and enjoy happy marriage with the right person than to marry early and suffer in marriage with a wrong person. It is not how far but
how well that matters. I have observed that some people are rushing into marriage because they see everybody getting married. Some people rush into
marriage due to pressure from family and friends. At the
end, they marry a wrong person. Sometimes it is good for you to take your time and search for the
right person. Marriage is a life time contract in which you spend the rest of your life with your spouse.
Therefore take your time to search and pray. Do not rush into marriage because of family pressure or friends pressure. They will not be there when you will
be suffering bad marriage. Therefore, take your time and
search for the right person.
“ Marry the one you love but make sure he or she
becomes your best friend. Marry someone who
you
wouldn’t mind waking up to every day for the
rest of
your life. The one who makes you glad to be
alive. Marry
someone who drives you crazy. The one who
calms you.
Marry the one you don’t mind fighting with,
because
they will be fair about it. Don’t marry someone
who gives
their ego more importance, than they give you.
Marry
someone who makes you the best version of
yourself.
The one who believes in you, even when you
don’t. The
one who stands by you, through thick and thin.
Marry
someone you can’t
imagine your life without. Marry the one you are
insanely
in love with. And the one who is insanely in love
with
you. Marry the one who knows what you
want to say, when you’re too tired to say it with
words.
The one you can spend comfortable silences
with from
time to time. Marry your soul mate. Marry
your best friend.”
I decree, may you marry your soul mate, may
you
marry
someone who will take care of you not frustrating you
In
Jesus
Name. Amen.

30 THINGS TO STOP DOING TO YOURSELF

Stop spending time with the wrong people. It’s
useless spending time with people who don’t know
your worth.

Stop running from your problems. Face them
head on.

Stop lying to yourself.

Stop putting your own needs on the back burner.
Yes, help others; but help yourself too.

Stop trying to be someone you’re not. Don’t
change so people will like you. Be yourself and the
right people will love the real you.

Stop trying to hold onto the past. You can’t start
the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading
your last one.

Stop being scared to make a mistake. Every
success has a trail of failures behind it, and every
failure is leading towards success.

Stop berating yourself for old mistakes. Every
single thing that has ever happened in your life is
preparing you for a moment that is yet to come.

Stop trying to buy happiness. The things that
really satisfy us are totally free – love, laughter and
working on our passions.
10 Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness.
– If you’re not happy with who you are on the
inside, you won’t be happy in a long-term
relationship with anyone else either.

Stop being idle. Evaluate situations and take
decisive action.

Stop thinking you’re not ready. Nobody ever
feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises.

Stop getting involved in relationships for the
wrong reasons. Fall in love when you’re ready, not
when you’re lonely.

Stop rejecting new relationships just because old
ones didn’t work. Some will test you, some will use
you and some will teach you.

Stop trying to compete against everyone else.
Success is a battle between YOU and YOURSELF
only.

Stop being jealous of others. There’s something
you have that everyone wants!

Stop complaining and feeling sorry for yourself.
Smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot
stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.

Stop holding grudges. Forgiveness is not just
for other people, it’s for you too.

Stop letting others bring you down to their level.
Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate
those who refuse to raise theirs.

Stop wasting time explaining yourself to others.
Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t
believe it anyway. Just do what you know in your
heart is right.

Stop doing the same things over and over
without taking a break. If you keep doing what
you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re
getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to
see things clearly.

Stop overlooking the beauty of small moments.
Enjoy the little things, because one day you may
look back and discover they were the big things.

Stop trying to make things perfect. – The real
world doesn’t reward perfectionists;it rewards
people who get things done.

Stop following the path of least resistance. Don’t
take the easy way out. Do something extraordinary.

Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t. It’s
okay to fall apart for a little while. Cry if you need to
– it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you
do, the sooner you will be able to smile again.

Stop blaming others for your troubles. The
extent to which you can achieve your dreams
depends on the extent to which you take
responsibility for your life.

Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Doing
so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out.

Stop worrying so much. Worry will not strip
tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy.

Stop focusing on what you don’t want to
happen. Focus on what you do want to happen.
Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great
success story.

Stop being ungrateful. No matter how good or
bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your
life.

LET HIM/HER GO!!!

•Neva feel as if d world is comin 2 an end wen
som1 decides 2 walk away frm u.»LET HIM/HER
GO!!!
•Tryin 2 force somebody 2 luv u is like tryin 2
teach a pig how 2 appreciate beauty & cleanliness.
»Don’t force them, let dem luv u naturally, if they
can’t….LET THEM GO!!!
•U ar too precious 2 beg 4 luv. A
person who truly loves u will respect u & wont treat
u like trash.»If he/her treats u
like trash… LET HIM/HER GO
•Dn’t waste ur valuable time tryin 2 convince or beg
anyone 2 luv u.
»Som1 out there is sinkin deeply in luv wit u, but u
too damn busy chasin broken dreams,WHY? LET
HIM/HER GO.
•Neva be sad if someone prefers anoda over u, its
always difficult 2 convince a MONKEY dat
strawberry is sweeter than banana.»LET HIM/HER
GO!!!
•Any guy/lady dat takes u 4 granted will eventually
take advantage of u.. »Dn’t endure, jst LET HIM/HER
GO!!!
•Dia ar pple who wil neva luv u
no matter how much luv u show them luv & dat’s
okay. Their rejection of u doesn’t mean there is
somtin wrong wit u, it simply means they ar not
meant 4 u »Dn’t force a circle shape into a
triangle shape, Just LET HIM/HER GO!!!
MORAL LESSON:…..
•U cn’t change anyone’s opinion of u, but u can
prevent their opinions frm changin u.
•Let ur head lead ur heart out of a toxic
relationship… »LEARN 2 LET GO.. If somtin is
meant 2b it will be..

Don’t think all men are after sex

wonder why some people think that all men areafter
SEX and all women are after MONEY.People should
get this right.Ladies, just because you met a guy
and he usedyou for sex then he dumped you
doesn’t meanthat all men in this world will do that
to you and Men, just because you met a girlin your
past whowasonly after money doesn’t mean that all
thebeautiful ladies in this world re like that.People
are different.They’re very many men and women
out there who have TRUE LOVE.They are single and
they’re looking for you.So try to change your
mindset and go find them.Do you agree with me?
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ADVICE TO ALL THE SINGLE LADIES OUT THERE

As a woman, stupidity is when you sit back cross- legged and search for an already made man. In case you don’t know, every already made man out there has a woman who has been with him from when he had only a pair of shorts and a single shirt. That’s why majority of well to do men, usually make you nothing but a sex- toy, for you mean absolutely nothing to them. He might cheat on her with you, but truth is, he’ll never leave her for you… If you are guilty of hunting for an already made man, then i tell you, my dear you are such a cow, you actually need horns. When a good healthy brain settles, yours floats! He may not own a car. He may not earn a lot of money. He may not live in a posh estate. He may not be able to shower you with gifts all the time. He may not have a great job. But it’s enough to know you are the only one he craves for and loves unconditionally IF He has a heart of gold. He is Honest. He is very hard working. He is humble. He keeps that smile on your face. He talks to you every day. He actually listens to you. He tolerates you when you’re moody. His family knows you. He tells you your beautiful all the time. He sees you every chance he gets. He appreciates the tiniest things you do. He is there when you need him. He respects you. He is proud you are his and likes showing you off. And he treats you like a queen… My dear you are indeed lucky to have him. He may not have it all now, but one day he will… He may not be living his dream now, but one day he will… And as he pictures all this… He pictures you. Ladies, there’s no PERFECT MAN ON EARTH, never forget this fact. Learn to appreciate that man in your life who strives to be all you need. That man who promises you nothing but tries his utmost best to give you everything.
It just an advice

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